Why are some so-called “safe spaces” so toxic? (lemmings.world)

submitted 1 month ago by blackwitch@lemmings.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I once entered a “safe spaces” Discord server with literal flowers and stuff. It looked very innocent and welcoming and it was just for gaming. Turns out, they were making fun of their members on it, fake-crying to mock a depressed user, and kept telling the users to “let them see their cuts”. It was so disturbing. These were literal 18-20 year olds, too, and I was like 13.

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[-] the_abecedarian@piefed.social 9 points 1 month ago

Unfortunately, what people call a space doesn't necessarily correspond to how you will experience it, or even reality. Always trust your own read of things.

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