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Imo the whole incel thing is a symptom, not the cause. Many men feel lonely, lost, and useless in today's society. Without a proper support network and raised to hide away our emotions, many of us don't have the proper tools to tackle this monster. Then, conveniently, there are these people who tell you that none of it is your fault. That it's not you who needs to change or improve yourself, but society that went wrong. That it's the "woke people" who paint you as a villain, that it's the women who deny you the "right" to a relationship .
Many men are looking for answers. And the whole incel alt-right pipeline gives easy answers. It blames everyone else. And when you're already in a dark place, tired and lost, it can be hard to resist. Not that I want to excuse incels in any way, they're dangerous and we have every right to vilify them. But imo they're not the cause, just a symptom of the broader issue. And to prevent more incels from appearing, I think it's time they men's mental health is taken a bit more seriously. Society needs to adapt, starting from how boys are raised.