Just FYI this isn't 4chan, we try not to misgender here. That's why you're getting downvoted. If someone says they're a woman, then it's best to treat them as though they are.

There are plenty of other places where "transvestigation" and misgendering are commonplace, e.g. Reddit. programming.dev is full of software peeps, and a disproportionately large number of software peeps are trans. I try my best to respect them and I recommend all do the same.