17
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
view the rest of the comments
this post was submitted on 23 Jul 2025
17 points (100.0% liked)
Ask Lemmy
33594 readers
1431 users here now
A Fediverse community for open-ended, thought provoking questions
Rules: (interactive)
1) Be nice and; have fun
Doxxing, trolling, sealioning, racism, and toxicity are not welcomed in AskLemmy. Remember what your mother said: if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. In addition, the site-wide Lemmy.world terms of service also apply here. Please familiarize yourself with them
2) All posts must end with a '?'
This is sort of like Jeopardy. Please phrase all post titles in the form of a proper question ending with ?
3) No spam
Please do not flood the community with nonsense. Actual suspected spammers will be banned on site. No astroturfing.
4) NSFW is okay, within reason
Just remember to tag posts with either a content warning or a [NSFW] tag. Overtly sexual posts are not allowed, please direct them to either !asklemmyafterdark@lemmy.world or !asklemmynsfw@lemmynsfw.com.
NSFW comments should be restricted to posts tagged [NSFW].
5) This is not a support community.
It is not a place for 'how do I?', type questions.
If you have any questions regarding the site itself or would like to report a community, please direct them to Lemmy.world Support or email info@lemmy.world. For other questions check our partnered communities list, or use the search function.
6) No US Politics.
Please don't post about current US Politics. If you need to do this, try !politicaldiscussion@lemmy.world or !askusa@discuss.online
Reminder: The terms of service apply here too.
Partnered Communities:
Logo design credit goes to: tubbadu
founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS
You mention Lemmy and Facebook and Bluesky and Discord all in the same breath, but they all serve different purposes. The topic premise isn't quite wrong to lump them all in as 'social media' or 'communities', but I think those strokes are too broad.
It really depends on what your goals and interests are. All have their problems, from dark patterns to limited user count.
Good point.
Facebook and Discord:
1.) Local marketplace; a second opinion to Craigslist, perhaps for older people who don't want to deal with Craigslist making messaging people over mobile inconvenient.
2.) Local events; a place to join groups and meet real, new people, maybe even as an alternative to dating platforms.
3.) The oldest platform (FB); in theory, posts from before even X may exist.
4.) Older demographic (FB); political drama tends to supersede sybau Skibidi toilet flavor proshippers DNI drama: it's easier to ignore old person propaganda than organized hatred.
5.) College groups (Discord); you can find college groups. [https://www.facebook.com/community/whats-new/college-community-connect-facebook-campus/](This suggest possibility on Facebook, but it's old, so IDK if it works anymore.)
X or Mastodon:
1.) Sexual freedom* if I need it. *Your sexual freedom may be substantially limited, as taboo themes like CNC and BDSM may get you filtered, sex workers will flood most hashtags you were hoping to promote yourself with (including "quitting porn" and "abstinence" type ones surprisingly enough), and despite being unable to promote certain themes, zoophiles get to go wild. Tumblr and DeviantArt:
1.) Long text*. *The formatting on both is shit. I have to press space 5 or 6 times instead of using tab or I'm unable to use Times New Roman 12 pt font or something.
2.) Historic user bases; many gems to unearth.
3.) Active with relatively less toxicity and porn (at least Tumblr has less toxicity and porn, though DeviantArt is dead enough for mostly only enthusiasts to have stayed post-Eclipse).