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What mental load are you carrying atm?
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I can imagine mate. Most of my straight friends are doing far more than their partners, and have to push him hard to get him to do things. It's really frustrating and the reminders are yet more work... it's also really inconsiderate
I'm forgiving of my husband because he has cerebral palsy and he does remember to do the one chore I'll get shrieky about, cleaning the cat litter every day.
Sibling has two once a week chores and only remembers one because it's food related. They cook one meal a week (or order or take us all to taco bell, I don't care they just figure it out) and "do the floors" once a week. Or what meant to be all the floors but they fucking weaseled into one week mop one week vacuum.
AND I HAVE TO TELL THEM EACH WEEK TO DO THAT
Oh lord that's exhausting I really feel for you