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I've already accepted my closest friends are still going to have a lot of distance, that's apparently just the level I can get to comfortably.
My wife on the other hand constantly seeks out friendships regardless of how ridiculously toxic they are (I shouldn't detail but seriously extreme toxicity), she thinks if she doesn't put up with it, then she won't have any friends.