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And I am clearly autistic.

This one too, even moreso

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[-] Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world 9 points 3 days ago

My whole life being annoyed at how I don't get on with normal people and wondering why all my friends seem to be neurodivergent, being great at any subject I care about but useless in any class where I merely dislike the teacher or subject, doing overtly unusual things in public and barely noticing the stares, and thinking I was perfectly NT the whole time.

It is a deeply absurd experience.

[-] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 days ago

I have this problem where I call out the absurd “normal” things people do and say to me when people do or say them and they stare back at me in utter confusion.

[-] Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

I just wish someone had told me "your vibe is your tribe" about thirty years ago

[-] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 days ago

For 44 years I was certain I did not have a tribe, and I was just a shitty person

[-] Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

The self doubts haven't gone away, just the doubters.

[-] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 days ago

Yeah, that PTSD from people treating us awfully is a tough one to overcome. Especially when they deny the existence of our trauma. Thanks mom and dad.

this post was submitted on 16 Jun 2025
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