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submitted 11 months ago by Mr_Stellar@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

Does it even make a difference? Would much appreciate some suggestions.

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[-] teagrrl@lemmy.ml 16 points 11 months ago

hexbear.net, lemmy.ml, lemmygrad.ml, easily the best instances.

[-] LethargicPuppy14@lemmy.zip 25 points 11 months ago

Even if you truly believe that, just saying that without talking about those instances' reputation seems... unhelpful, at best. You're telling someone to join hexbear without telling them how many instances have defederated from it.

[-] teagrrl@lemmy.ml 8 points 11 months ago

The reputation is only positive in my view.

[-] IttihadChe@lemmy.ml 8 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

People are recommending all sorts of instances without telling them how many instances have de-federated from them and if they're federated with hexbear etc.

You only focus that criticism on this suggestion because you are obviously one of the people who don't like hexbear and want to frame your critique of the suggestion as more reasonable/less biased.

What exactly is the "reputation" hexbear has anyway? Being based?

[-] LethargicPuppy14@lemmy.zip 7 points 11 months ago

Those three instances are a lot more controversial than most, and I'm not gonna argue with you if you're gonna pretend to not know that.

[-] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 10 points 11 months ago

"Controversial" in that Marxists tend to support them, and those opposed to Marxism don't. It's as simple as that, really.

[-] teagrrl@lemmy.ml 8 points 11 months ago

Controversial in the view of liberals and conservatives.

[-] IttihadChe@lemmy.ml 7 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Controversial amongst whom and for what reasons?

Without providing that context your critique is "...unhelpful at best"

Edit: to be clear, Hexbear is a large and active instance, so if you value their content (as I do) other instances being de-federated can be just as much, if not more, a mark against those instances. Hence why it matters who deems them controversial and why.

I don’t personally know who they are federated with, but as someone who’s only used Lemmy.ML, I can interact with their instance and I can interact with many (if not most, idk) other instances (.World, .Zip, Lemmygrad, DBzer0, etc). So if they are de-federated with those instances and you want to see both Hexbear and them, maybe come to Lemmy.ml.

Side note: is there a way to track de-federations aside from just searching for communities hosted there from within your instance?

[-] Stitch0815@feddit.org 5 points 11 months ago
[-] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 8 points 11 months ago

Nah, I agree. Hexbear is probably my favorite out of the 3, but all are good instances.

[-] MP3Martin@programming.dev 5 points 11 months ago
[-] teagrrl@lemmy.ml 6 points 11 months ago

I disagree, the users on all three have been nothing but supportive and wonderful to me.

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