I fully get and embrace inclusivity/accessibility but it's starting to get to the point where people genuinely get super angry if they don't get a joke or something and somehow that's everyone elses fault. Like, it's ok if you didn't pick up on a joke. It's not the end of the world. Every joke isn't gonna be a reference or tone that you pick up on right away. Just delete your reactionary comment if it was cringy and learn from it. It's not that big of a deal. I don't know why people act like it is. It's mildly embarrassing at most if you miss sarcasm and it's pointed out to you later. Your comments aren't critically important. Just wait for context or ask for it before popping off it's not that deep lol