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What would/do you wear to a funeral? (lemmy.world)
submitted 5 months ago by Okokimup@lemmy.world to c/WomensStuff@lazysoci.al
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I just lost a family member (not a close one, but I did love him). Not sure yet when the funeral will be, but I'll need to plan ahead, and I'm not sure where to start. When my boyfriend died (8 years ago) we made copies of his favorite tshirt and wore those. I'm guessing this will be a slightly dresser function.

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[-] Okokimup@lemmy.world 4 points 5 months ago

Thank you. I'm just crying lightly here and there, which is healthy. We were friends when I was a teen, but I haven't seen him for several years now, and I wish I'd been able to. I don't expect any tension.

[-] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 4 points 5 months ago

Yes that sounds really healthy, and good there'll be no tension. Lean on us if you need anything ❤️

[-] Okokimup@lemmy.world 3 points 5 months ago

I appreciate you.

[-] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 3 points 5 months ago

And I you mate ❤️

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