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[-] Rentlar@lemmy.ca 20 points 1 day ago

Psst if you want newbie oriented advice ask on !newtolemmy@lemmy.ca

One piece of advice as a freebie: Don't judge yourself too hard if an honest and genuine comment you make now-and-then gets downvoted. Often times the best thing to do is just to move on. You can try to reach a mutual understanding through conversation, but recognize the signs when a back-and-forth isn't leading anywhere productive and simply back off.

[-] runiq@feddit.org 5 points 1 day ago

That's just healthy advice in general, I think. Thanks for thr reminder :)

[-] Deebster@programming.dev 4 points 1 day ago

Sometimes I get downvotes that make no sense, so I just chose to believe it was an accident.

[-] Shimitar@downonthestreet.eu 3 points 1 day ago

I dont care for upvotes or downvotes. That feels... Anal...

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