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submitted 4 weeks ago by Leax177@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

I'm not sure if this is the right community to post in (maybe y'all can comment more appropriate ones if that's the case) but basically, I'm not sure what I believe in spiritually. While I believe in an afterlife and that my loved ones who are no longer here are there I'm uncertain If I believe in god, reincarnation, chakras, etc. I'm uncertain which religion to try to validate this belief that my loved ones are in a better place, but I know that I want life/spiritual guidance, community, and inclusion (both as a Queer person and a general outsider.) I just need some help figuring this part of myself out, is there anyone I can talk to about this? What should I do?

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[-] JASN_DE@feddit.org 15 points 4 weeks ago

as a Queer person

That alone will disqualify a lot of religions.

I'm uncertain If I believe in god

And that should take care of the rest. Are you sure it needs to be one of the organized religions?

[-] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 7 points 4 weeks ago

No religions or cultural tradition is a monolith. This comment is a generalization.

[-] Leax177@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

If it wasn't for my belief in the people I've lost, that they're In a better place, then I would have never have decided to try and better my life. My dogs for example, who passed a few years ago, are why I'm trying to turn my life around. I don't think it NEEDS to be an organized religion, but I ultimately just don't know. I know that my loved ones are somewhere were they are safe, happy, and at peace, and that they're encouraging me not to give up. I was a militant atheist for a long time because... I was angry at the world for feeling like a mistake, like a burden.

I'd like something, that tells me on a spiritual level, that I'm not, and that despite these hardships, I'll be okay. I don't know who to talk to about all this.

this post was submitted on 20 Apr 2025
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