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*by accident. On accident grates like nails on a blackboard. It's like saying by purpose.
Nails *by a blackboard
I did that for purpose
On accident definitely still works. I've heard it plenty times.
Turns out English grammar has always been an ever changing thing and different regions that speak it, speak it differently. All that matters is that the recipient understood you. You knowing the "correct" grammar means that they succeeded in that, so it's fine.
Do you read shakespeare and critique him on his grammar? Do you critique a Geordie on their grammar for speaking like everyone else they grew up around? English is a great language where there is no ONE way to speak or write it, so don't perpetuate that myth of proper grammar. That's just formal grammar, a product of the posh cunts that wanted to differentiate from the working class.
Ah, the siren song of the ill-educated
If you ever took an English language class you'd learn that this is essentially 90% of the course with it focusing on various different dialects of English with MLE and pidgin usually being the main focuses to drive this point.
English [Simplified], perchance?
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British English
Clearly never took an English language class then.
You could've just replied "Wank", Adam
aLl tHaT mATTerS iS the reCiPieNT unDeRStAnDs yOu
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Fair points, I was judgemental in the way I said it all, I apologise. Seems like were mostly on the same page though and you do understand my point a lot and yeah I do think descriptive is way more important than prescriptive, even more so on a social media platform.
As someone who grew up in the commonwealth, I can't remember ever hearing it as "by accident". I'll keep that in mind.
As someone who also grew up in the commonwealth, I can’t remember ever hearing anyone say “on accident”. And it seems that “on accident” is grammatically wrong (not that we all have to speak with perfect grammar, but just pointing it out). I’m sure I’ll get downvoted for this but whatever. “On accident” also grated at me lol.
I upvoted you on/by accident. There.
I just upvoted you by purpose. There. Sounds weird, right?
The Lord's work.
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