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[-] venusaur@lemmy.world 10 points 6 months ago

You should have to actually validate your age to use social media and you should be required to be 18.

[-] tabular@lemmy.world 16 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

How do you validate age over the internet?

A drawing of two dogs and a computer desk, with text. One dog is on the computer chair with it's paw on the keyboard. The dogs are looking at each other. The text reads: "On the Internet, nobody knows you're a dog". looking

[-] venusaur@lemmy.world 2 points 6 months ago

You have to go somewhere to register in person and then you have to do Face ID to log in.

[-] yamanii@lemmy.world 9 points 6 months ago

Face ID, you are even more dystopian than I thought.

[-] venusaur@lemmy.world 2 points 6 months ago

People use their Face ID all day every day. What are you talking about? You don’t think Apple has all that data?

[-] Overshoot2648@lemm.ee 4 points 6 months ago

There's a reason I don't use Apple products.

[-] tabular@lemmy.world 6 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

Big businesses can afford that.. Will ya let smaller ones or hobbyists off the hook?

I ain't giving out my home address like it's a passport boarder crossing. How do I tell if the faceID given over the internet is from that person? Could be a dog.

[-] venusaur@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

Smaller ones are often the most fri he a d problematic so no, they’re not off the hook. Same way you wouldn’t give your credit card to a rando shop online.

Your Face ID would need to be registered somewhere else with to validate that you registered your face and not your dog. Big problems need big solutions.

[-] tabular@lemmy.world 5 points 6 months ago

What suggests to you smaller ones are the most problematic?? When I think of younger people interacting online I think of big places like TikTok, I don't think of a random mastodon server.

The issue is not that a dog turned up to get a picture of their face, it's that if I have a picture of your face now I can pretend to be you. Woof.

[-] venusaur@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

Think about 8chan and other underground social sites that are breeding grounds for radicalized youth.

Apple has pictures of all of our faces. Companies have your voice if they want. It’s too late to worry about that. Anybody can be you if they want to. Eventually they could do it with a single photo if not already.

[-] VieuxQueb@lemmy.ca 12 points 6 months ago

No I don't think we should give corpos access to even more identifying info about us. You have a kid YOU have the responytobtake care of them not me. If you believe a kid should be able to go on the internet without proper surveillance it's on you if something happens to that kid not me. I would not give my kids a blank plane ticket to go anywhere they want in the world without surveillance, it's the same for the internet. It's not my responsibility to secure your kid it's yours.

[-] venusaur@lemmy.world 2 points 6 months ago

U don’t have to do anything unless u work for the agency that is verifying age. Would you say the same about school shooters? Not your problem. Up to parents to stop their kids. Unfortunately, we allow anybody to create life as there are a lot of bad parents.

[-] VieuxQueb@lemmy.ca 7 points 6 months ago

Your argument does not make sense. I defend my kid from school shooting by not living in the States. Don't give guns to deranged people and most of your problems with school shooting is solved.

I do not have to give my ID when I walk around a school.

Letting a kid roam on the internet is more like giving them blank plane tickets than sending them to school.

[-] venusaur@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

it's not always about your kids. it's about the other kids that aren't being parented. that's why there are age restrictions for things like alcohol and guns.

[-] VieuxQueb@lemmy.ca 5 points 6 months ago

Age restriction on cigarettes and alcohol is not for kids that are not parented but to prevent companies abusing kids to make more profit wich is why I say selling of internet connected devices and internet connection should be done to adults only. But don't force me to give companies all my personal data.

[-] venusaur@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

Fair enough. Social media is addictive and it’s the wild west for political radicalization. It should be restricted for kids whose brains are still developing. You can get devices anywhere. What you’re suggesting is like restricting lighter sales but not tobacco. Doesn’t work.

[-] Overshoot2648@lemm.ee 1 points 6 months ago

None of what you are saying is addressing the massive privacy violation of tracking everyone's internet habits and websites having a copy of your ID. Even if they are 100% responsible with your data, do you realize how often websites get hacked?

[-] venusaur@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

Doesn’t have to be ID directly to the website. Some other validated token can exist. I don’t have the solution but there will be one whether you can imagine it or not. Data gets stolen all the time. It’s just part of living in a digital world and part of that will require protecting children from radicalization and hyper-sexualization. Don’t think about red or blue. Think about the negative effects that porn and social media have on kids and then the adults they become.

[-] VieuxQueb@lemmy.ca 3 points 6 months ago

That is a whole other problem, kids need to have a tutor, mabe instead of putting money on business that will leak our data just to put fake barriers on a site we should put that money into helping the kids that are left to their own devices.

[-] venusaur@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

Why not both? We give out our personal data to strangers all the time. Nothing new just different application. Have you created an online account with the IRS or the DMV? Same thing. You verify your identify then encrypted data or tokens get sent to the site you’re accessing. There is a solution that I’m not paid enough to develop.

[-] VieuxQueb@lemmy.ca 2 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

No never created an account wit IRS or DMV as I am not American. And fir all the bit leaks that happened recently I for sure don't want a company in charge of verifying people ID.

[-] venusaur@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

For sure. Maybe some other government website in your country that would have to verify your identity?

I get it. I don’t trust these companies either but we’re too entangled in it already. That concern was a couple decades ago. Too late now.

[-] Darkenfolk@dormi.zone 6 points 6 months ago

Nah I don't want corpos to have even more information on me than they already have.

It's time for people to finally accept again that you can't shield kids from anything, especially if it seems forbidden and interesting.

Also if you really wanted to pick a verification age you would have to go with 25+. 18 years old are just legal 17 years old and 20 years are barely out of school and don't have any experience about anything. 30+ years are stuck in the system and 65+ simply don't care anymore.

Actually raise the verification age to 99+. No wait just ban social media for everyone, it sucks and is unhealthy, go tough grass or something.

[-] venusaur@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

So don’t have an age restriction for tobacco, or alcohol or strip clubs either cuz you can’t shield kids from anything? Got it.

[-] Darkenfolk@dormi.zone 4 points 6 months ago

Nice strawman you got there, but we weren't talking about those topics.

The topic was social media, try to keep up.

[-] venusaur@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

It’s absolutely relevant. Go back to your cave if you can’t understand that. It’s 2024. You have to think about digital restrictions the same way you think an out analog.

[-] Darkenfolk@dormi.zone 2 points 6 months ago

Do you know what the great thing about 2024 is? People actually understand that digital doesn't have the same restrictions as analog.

Applying those very same restrictions would be foolish seeing how it wouldn't work as well, or even at all.

Nuance is sometimes important in these topics, no matter how much you want to act like your bullshit argument actually holds any water for some overarching topic no one was talking about.

[-] venusaur@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

ooga booga. you're so far behind

[-] Darkenfolk@dormi.zone 1 points 6 months ago

Do you know what the great thing about 2024 is? People actually understand that digital doesn't have the same restrictions as analog.

Applying those very same restrictions would be foolish seeing how it wouldn't work as well, or even at all.

Nuance is sometimes important in these topics, no matter how much you want to act like your bullshit argument actually holds any water for some overarching topic no one was talking about.

[-] VieuxQueb@lemmy.ca 3 points 6 months ago

Just dont give internet connected devices to kids and your problems are solved. I would agree with company being forced to verify the age of a person before signing a internet contract. Don't give open access to internet to kids it's just like sending them anywhere in the world alone.

[-] venusaur@lemmy.world 2 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

right, just don't give kids cigarettes or guns and your problems are solved...

[-] Overshoot2648@lemm.ee 2 points 6 months ago

Put in a parental filter then. You are trying to ruin the accessibility of the internet. What is a person from another country going to do when they don't have a US ID or whichever country is trying this? The internet doesn't have regions and people will move on to seedier websites that aren't based in that country anymore. You can see that with the several states that banned porn without ID. Most porn sites are still available without ID and big names like Pornhub can easily be accessed with a VPN that kids are constantly being advertised about by YouTube ad-reads. Requiring ID won't make kids safer, it'll just make the internet a headache to use and a source of identity theft when websites get hacked.

[-] venusaur@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

There is a solution that I don’t have and people like you are unable to even imagine, but the internet will not be the Wild West forever.

[-] Hackworth@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

people like you are unable to even imagine

I have to share how much joy this brought me- reading it in a comically exaggerated villain voice.

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