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submitted 9 months ago by Ghostalmedia@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

I feel like things on Lemmy were pretty chill several months ago, and that’s started to change.

People used to talk each other like they would talk to a neighbor. Now I get the sense that people have become quick to be negative, attack, and not be constructive.

Am I crazy in feeling like the vibe has changed?

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[-] TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world 5 points 9 months ago

Sounds like fighting words..

[-] bhamlin@lemmy.world 5 points 9 months ago
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[-] ShellMonkey@lemmy.socdojo.com 5 points 9 months ago

I haven't really noted a shift, but there's always a few folks in a given place, real or virtual, that are absolutely unwilling to take a nuanced view. My way or the highway and all that. Hard to have a historical view though when a major part of the users have all come on board in the last 7-8 months, me included.

[-] c0mbatbag3l@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago

Well there's only a few hundred people commenting and a lot of initial transfers have stopped using the site because it only caters to extremist views. Hell even I'm about to just stop and use Tildes exclusively.

Personally I've never seen it the way everyone claims, from day one this place seemed to just be the worst of reddit, but who knows.

[-] iAvicenna@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I kinda started getting that feeling too but I thought that was because I started getting more involved in discussions and political ones more. Before it was mainly quick comments for me. Anyways if someone starts to insult or deliberately distort what I am saying by cherry picking combinations of words from my comments, I put on my "three words at most troll hat" and the discussion dies pretty quickly. No point in writing a paragraph for a comment if the other person is just gonna take one word out of it and bash the rest with it.

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