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Nowadays I find a lot of games feel like too much work and/or anxiety when I just want to relax for like, 30 minutes to an hour after a long day. On the other hand, the games specifically designed to help you unwind just feel boring imo.

In the past I've felt like Outer Wilds scratched this itch, cause the whole experience was engaging but generally relaxed. There was a mystery that kept me hooked and the exploration and movement was fun in and of itself. I also felt like Subnautica filled this role since it was very much at my own pace, with anxiety producing portions which could for the most part be avoided or minimized, and also there was a clear objective to fulfill, get off the planet.

So what games do you play when you just wanna relax?

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[-] Evotech@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Path of exile for a few weeks every league

But I'm enjoying rogue lites / vampire survivors like games. There's a billion of them so you can just chill with one of them. I usually find a new one every other day too, some demo or whatever

Risk of rain 2 is also not something I would call a chill game. But it's definitely something you can just fire up and play for an hour

[-] LinkOpensChest_wav@lemmy.one 4 points 1 year ago

Skyrim was my chill game for years, but now I'd say Elder Scrolls Online. Everyone I know who plays ESO is super non-competitive and chill. It's just got a great vibe.

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[-] TheOneAndOnly@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago

Dead Cells. I can just... Zone out and go. It's really cathartic, and if I do particularly bad during a run, I just... Die and start over. You don't lose anything you've gained, (unless you pick something up in a biome and don't make it to the exit), and each run is practically a new game that requires nothing to learn it. It's my Zen game.

[-] SVcross@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago
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[-] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago

I only played it to try it out, and it isn't 100% in my range of games I'd care that much for, but I've gathered that Pokémon Mystery Dungeon (especially the first few pairs of games in the series) is the king when it comes to escapism. If someone said a psychologist made the games, I'd believe them.

[-] x2XS2L0U@feddit.de 4 points 1 year ago
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[-] thelsim@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago

Caves of Qud is something I love to relax with. It's full of stuff to explore and you can take your time since its turn based. I don't even mind so much when I die, because you get to create a completely new weird mutant and try again.

[-] ModernRisk@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 year ago

Persona 5 Royal.

I love the social element, characters and such.

[-] NENathaniel@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 year ago

I find most games can be relaxing if Ive already played them a lot, even comp shooters. Quake Champions is relaxing for me at this point

[-] Wallaby@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Age of Empires 2 custom games. Can't beat a classic, and you can save whenever you're done

[-] runestomper@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

I’ve gotten really into Grand Theft Auto San Andreas for unwinding after a long day. Something about the low poly graphics while I can just be a menace in the game feels right.

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[-] Witchfire@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Splatoon. Don't ask why, I don't know. My gf calls it "yelling at 12 year olds"

But seriously it's like watching your own team score against you in soccer ;___;

[-] Ravi@feddit.de 4 points 1 year ago

The Hunter: Call of the Wild. I have nothing to do with hunting. I'd never thought a hunting simulation could be my type of game, but putting headphones on and running through the woods is so relaxing.

[-] Metatronz@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Cities Skylines 2 has been great for this. Just log in and tinker with your city! Very relaxing creative problem solving..

[-] Devious_Thoughts 4 points 1 year ago

I think I understand what you mean lol.

Lately for me it's been: Mass Effect legendary edition, Mount & Blade 2, Crusader Kings 3, Dishonored 1 and 2, and Hitman 3.

[-] wildcardology@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Elder Scrolls Online for me.

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[-] Bishma@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Oxygen Not Included. - !oxygennotincluded@lemmy.world

Just started a new colony yesterday because an update was released with new tools and content. The colony I was playing up until that point was almost 3000 cycles old.

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[-] spittingimage@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Minecraft. Sky Factory 3 - a void world modpack. Nothing exists without my having created it. I can allow mobs to spawn on my platform or not, depending on how I feel.

[-] rip_art_bell@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Any of the building/management games like Factorio or Dyson Sphere Program or RimWorld. You can definitely make those games extremely challenging (speed runs, achievements, ultra hard modes/challenges). But for me they're cozy games where I can chip away at a small project or part of a larger project, like, I don't know, slowly building a scale model or something.

[-] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 3 points 1 year ago

Dwarf Fortress.

Theme Hospital.

The Sims.

Games that I can mostly play hands off.

[-] hubobes@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Mars First Logistics & Animal Crossing

[-] electrogamerman@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Im going to hijack op post.

Im looking for game to chill just like OP described, but im looking for something with online multiplayer. Ideally something like a builder like minecraft or no man sky, where I can just connect and find randomly people and help them build shit. I dont want to have to search for specific servers to interact with people, something that would randomly put me in worlds with other people.

[-] AlexWIWA@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

C&C Generals World Builder. I just make maps while I'm in discord.

It's stimulating enough that it keeps my mind from wandering from a conversation, but brainless enough to be engaged in the conversation.

I'm also partial to Minecraft. Just decorate a little section then log off until tomorrow

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