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submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by kratoz29@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

Following the spirit of spreading across the Fediverse (and because my main instance is down so many times, because diverse reasons) I'm intrigued about the joining instance process, because I honestly don't know what criteria to have in order to join another one if I ever want to do it.

That made me curious of how you decided to join?

I firstly join to lemmy.fmhy.ml thanks to Spez and a Reddit post from FMHY subreddit, then the tragedy occurred, then I joined to lemmy.world which is/was my main one because I pictured it like a good home, then lemmy.fmhy.net revived and I am with them too, but seems like they are in a bit of trouble with the server, finally now I am in lemm.ee, but only because I just wanted another backup, not because I searched for it especially (also it was mentioned in a comment about smaller instances and one user from here throw a joke to not join here because it sucks so that way the server would be more stable, so yeah, I joined).

To be clear I am not in search for yet another instance (that sounds like a good instance name to be fair), I just want to know how the deciding process is for you, is it just random? Is it because of personal tastes?

I couldn't care less about NSFW stuff, I don't search for it specifically, but my day won't be ruined if I see a tit.

I like gaming, tech, Linux, SBC gaming, emulation, macOS, Android stuff etc (yeah how original) should I look for an instance dedicated to that if I ever want to join yet another one? Because I see topics like this in almost any instance.

I read you lemmings!

EDIT: BTW the migration process has been easier for me thanks to LASIM, so I wouldn't be scared if I ever want/have to migrate again.

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[-] cupcakezealot 19 points 2 years ago

The shark, mostly.

Also because I'm on their Calckey instance too.

And this: blobcat, box

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[-] backhdlp 19 points 2 years ago

I saw blahaj and I was sold

[-] jack@hexbear.net 15 points 2 years ago

Hexbear sees and respects blahaj blahaj transshork-happy

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[-] ahal@lemmy.ca 18 points 2 years ago

I'm Canadian eh

[-] CannotSleep420@lemmygrad.ml 18 points 2 years ago

It's the most based one.

[-] ElHexo@hexbear.net 18 points 2 years ago
[-] chrisbit@leminal.space 17 points 2 years ago

I'm the admin. Why? Because I enjoy doing, it's in the spirit of decentralisation, and I didn't want to risk being part of an instance that defederates from leftist instances like Lemmygrad or Hexbear.

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[-] mp3@lemmy.ca 17 points 2 years ago

The server is hosted in my country, the TLD belongs to my country and the current admins seem chill and dedicated to make it work. Hopefully that's the recipe to it's longevity.

Once they add some donation method I'll gladly donate and if they need help I'll gladly offer my technical knowledge.

[-] absentthereaper@lemmygrad.ml 17 points 2 years ago

I'd rather comrades than liberals where my home instance is concerned; but I didn't have a temperature gauge for what hexbear posted like. Might make a hexbear alt in case something happens to the grad, tho; they're good folks so far.

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[-] Dr_Cog@mander.xyz 16 points 2 years ago

I'm a scientist so I joined the instance that seemed to match my interests the best. I like browsing Local and seeing all the other science posts as well

[-] NoGodsNoMasters@hexbear.net 15 points 2 years ago

I mean I joined it 3 years ago because I followed r/cth from reddit and for a while it was pretty much the only active instance

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[-] Tiritibambix@lemmy.ml 15 points 2 years ago

Because only lemmy.ml was popular 2 years ago.

[-] Teritz@feddit.de 15 points 2 years ago
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[-] stark@qlemmy.com 14 points 2 years ago
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[-] crunchpaste@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 2 years ago

When the reddit went bad I started looking for anti-corporate communities that would migrate.

r/cyberpunk was the first place I checked, but there was no discussion about migrating at all there. r/selfhosted was another obvious idea but people there seemed very reluctant as well.

The only sub that pointed to some clear migration path was r/piracy. I really appreciate the integrity of dbzer0 in this situation.

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[-] thesilencenoise@waveform.social 14 points 2 years ago

I started on Beehaw but created a second account on lemmy.world since I wanted to make sure I wasn't missing any content. Once the slowdowns started I took a deeper dive into different instances and saw there was one centered around music and production and this would fit me best. I still use all three but I still think this will be home for me.

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[-] luciferofastora@discuss.online 13 points 2 years ago

I googled about lemmy, found a blog post to introduce the whole concept, they linked an instance recommendation thing based on (if I understood correctly) the uptime, (de)federation and user count of the instance, and I just clicked one of the suggestions. So many posts claimed that it doesn't make a great difference that I eventually decided to toss my overoptimisation habit and take what was suggested to me.

But I'm still learning my way around here, who knows if this will stay my forever home.

[-] Psythik@lemm.ee 13 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

IDK I just kinda ended up here. The domain is easy to memorize, I guess.

(Edit: And it never goes down cause no one uses it.)

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[-] Quill0@lemmy.digitalfall.net 13 points 2 years ago

I didn't want to have my stuff out of my control so I made my own instance.

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[-] guts@lemmy.ml 12 points 2 years ago

Found some power tripping mods in some instances, lemmy.ml seems fairly neutral.

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[-] Aviandelight@mander.xyz 12 points 2 years ago

I like science and Mander has a lot of neat science communities. I also keep a back up account for Lemmy.world.

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[-] Kratos@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 2 years ago

Yarr ๐Ÿดโ€โ˜ ๏ธ

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[-] Infynis@midwest.social 11 points 2 years ago

I was told, by someone I know in a local Discord, that it was a reddit replacement for Midwest leftists. At the time I didn't know what Lemmy was. Now that I'm using it in place of reddit, it's performing very well. I like our local instance a lot. I am tempted to move to Startrek.website though, just because I'm a huge nerd

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