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Thoughts on this?
Sex should always be 100% consensual. If someone says 'no', then you must stop. If you don't then that's rape as far as I'm concerend. But would you acknowledge there's nuance in playful protest?
Also, there's also a growing (and understandable) feeling that consent can't be given under the influence of alcohol. However, where i come from our population would probably be half it's size if that were always true.
Also, if you have sex drunk and regret it later, there's an argument that the person you had sex with has taken advantage. That's a tricky one to navigate.
If both people are drunk it's inadvisable but not immoral imo. If only the other person is drunk, you'd definitely be taking advantage of them and I don't think that's right.
Yeah, hard agree on that. Many, many people have made poor decisions when inebriated. They've got over it and moved on. But when one person is sober it definitely feels like an abuse of power.