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Methinks someone doesn't know what "mansplaining" is.
Here, let me break down why that's a mansplain:
That's the mansplain. Someone who doesn't know shit corrected a woman who literally knows for certain without at any point considering that, perhaps, the woman is right.
Because when are women ever right?
Now fuck off the channel.
I'm not gonna interact directly with their comment, but I think it's worth mentioning that a lot of definitions include some reference to assuming she doesn't know what she's talking about. One definition is "the act of a man explaining something to a woman in a condescending, overconfident, or oversimplified manner, often assuming she lacks knowledge about the topic".
So the person above suggesting that he was never told who she was is not realizing that it's still mansplaining even before he finds out. I'm not saying you should have to believe everything a woman says, but the fact he just assumed she was as ignorant as he was and didn't stop to reflect on that, look into it, or at least ask a follow up question about her experience is part of the problem.
This article has a chart and you can see that if you're not sure of a woman's background it's probably going to end up that you were mansplaining: https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20180727-mansplaining-explained-in-one-chart
Wouldn't he need to have reason to believe (say, by being told she's Signal's president) that she knows for certain before this makes sense? A "no" wouldn't convince anyone without that crucial bit of context I think, setting aside the insufferability of this guy.
I'll probably eat some mod action at this rate, but that's a small price to pay to win an internet argument.
Edit: Holy fuck I take that back.
Or he could just, you know, hover the mouse over the icon, or perhaps even CLICK on the profile: https://bsky.app/profile/meredithmeredith.bsky.social