When you’re screwing up and nobody says anything to you anymore that means they’ve given up on you…you may not want to hear it but your critics are often the ones telling you they still love you and care about you and want to make you better.
-- randy pausch, the last lecture
https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/430312-when-you-re-screwing-up-and-nobody-says-anything-to-you
ALL of it is good. Go watch. Maybe laugh a bit. Maybe cry near the end. Come away changed.
We were always going to pay for their failures; this one, or the next.