[-] Ransom@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 months ago

Funny how they assume that “honest” people want to use self checkout in the first place

[-] Ransom@lemmy.ca 19 points 4 months ago

I’m thankful you posted this so I can block you and not have to interact with your nonsense. I wish all transphobes were this transparent.

[-] Ransom@lemmy.ca 11 points 5 months ago

What’s the original?

[-] Ransom@lemmy.ca 18 points 9 months ago

There is no defense for ABA, period. ABA techniques were adapted for gay conversion therapy, which says a lot. ABA absolutely does not help anyone to learn important skills, but forces people to hide who they are to avoid shame and punishment. It’s abusive, causes trauma, and is not okay.

The use of “levels” is also profoundly problematic. Google it.

I understand what you’re looking for, but happily talking about ABA in an autism space is like asking LGBTQ folks about their positive experiences with gay conversion therapy. Others might feel differently, but some of us have been affected by our past experiences and don’t really care to be reminded of them.

[-] Ransom@lemmy.ca 7 points 10 months ago

If you mean the last one, then yes, it’s necessary for some breeds (schnauzers, for instance).

[-] Ransom@lemmy.ca 12 points 11 months ago

This isn’t new information — traumatologists have known this for a long, long time. Glad that info like this is making news in the NY Times, though!

[-] Ransom@lemmy.ca 52 points 1 year ago

I use it and pronounce it like “Mix”

[-] Ransom@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 year ago

ABA at all, in any shape or form, is harmful. Its taking a person and saying, “The way you talk or act isn’t okay. We’re going to change you so that you talk and act like a different people group, and we’re going to ensure that pretty much your entire life is dedicated to this goal until we’ve achieved it.”

If someone chooses to get CBT, then there’s implicit consent. It’s pretty hard to do CBT without consent. ABA, on the other hand, is usually done to people who do not consent, which is abuse. The only reason it’s not seen as abusive is because Western society is so ableist that they consider anything that “changes” an autistic person to be more neuroconforming is acceptable, no matter how it’s achieved.

[-] Ransom@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 year ago

Intent is actually not everything. Legally speaking, if I run over a person with a car and they die, I can’t get away with it by saying, “well, I didn’t intend to kill them, so there shouldn’t be a consequence”. The impact of that person’s death is greater. It’s not murder, but it’s still manslaughter.

Ableist language is the same: it still causes harm, but obviously not harm to the body.

[-] Ransom@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 year ago

If nobody is trying to be offensive, and deaf people (one of whom wrote the linked article) are saying that using “deaf” in this way is offensive, and you continue to use it because you don’t care… you’re being offensive. Is it really so hard to change the language you use?

[-] Ransom@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 year ago

Why is it hard for you to believe? If someone is telling you that the language you’re using is harmful, is your reaction really to say, basically, that you don’t care and you’re going to continue using it?

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submitted 1 year ago by Ransom@lemmy.ca to c/canada@lemmy.ca

As a disabled person, I face ableism and ableist language every day. Some people use ableist language without even knowing that it is ableist. I thought it would be good for folks to take a look at the attached BBC article and expand their perspectives a bit.

[-] Ransom@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 year ago

I had a student do that. Just a post-it note that said “Sorry for the damage :(“. It was a kid that I wouldn’t have expected to play a prank like that, too: very quiet and reserved.

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