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I've been off and on with the Fediverse for sometime now. It's a relatively friendly place full of fellow nerds, but with a few caveats....

My feeds seem very focused on hard information be it Gaza, tech companies doing bad things, or people pitchforking about the lastest big bad in digital privacy. This is all well and good, but it does get a bit tired after a while. Seeing the samey stuff post after post by academic types makes me more informed but also mentally draining.

Where's the fun? On Facebook and Instagram I see light fluffy popcorn type posts of people reminiscing over Nintendo games or reels of cockatiels being cockatiels. It's fun to scroll and interact. Here it feels like I'm in a classroom, and people, while friendly, do get quite hostile if you don't like Linux or Star Trek.

As a leftist I like it here because it's my bubble of people, but I'd like to see the fedi let its hair down a bit. It's okay to talk about stuff other than infosec, privacy guides, distros, and Gaza.

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[-] breadsmasher@lemmy.world 145 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Reddit began in a similar way - being very tech focused until it started to become much more mainstream.

Block instances which have nothing you want (foreign languages, for me)

Block communities spamming gaza / war / techbro

I like to browse new across all instances, and block rather than only view subscriptions

[-] Ignacio@kbin.social 19 points 7 months ago

Block communities spamming gaza / war / techbro

I would agree with you if those communities were/are created to post content about gaza / war / techbro. But in most cases, those communities are generic, about news and technology, so when you block them, you also block other content that is not about gaza / war / techbro.

[-] breadsmasher@lemmy.world 14 points 7 months ago

a lot of apps support key word blocking

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[-] GONADS125@feddit.de 12 points 7 months ago

I have the same approach of browsing all and blocking what I don't want as I come across it. Which in my case, happens to be mostly anime and shitposting communities.

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[-] VinesNFluff@pawb.social 63 points 7 months ago

Personally, I feel like you can have fun on fedi, but it all depends on the accounts/communities you follow. My Sharkey feed AND my Lemmy feed are both full of memes, fandom nonsense, and shitposts. If you only follow serious communities and people that talk about serious news, you'll have a serious time.

That said, one thing that I thought was unpleasant about the fediverse, and then realised was a feature rather than a bug is... The fact that you can run out of fediverse content. After 2 hours on Lemmy, I have functionally read all of Lemmy (or, well, all the communities I care to read), and maybe 1 more hour to join conversations I'd like to join.

Compared to the seemingly infinite content stream of The Other Sites (tm), this initially struck me as bad and weird, but then I realised... I actually prefer it this way. Doomscrolling a fedi site/app is actually not possible, and that has done wonders for my mental health.

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[-] ElectroVagrant@lemmy.world 33 points 7 months ago

For the moment, a lot of the fun on some of the federated platforms is behind several steps of effort that many of the corporate platforms have streamlined people out of being accustomed to taking, which is part of why they've kept their larger audiences. If a single click/tap is too much, that's enough to keep some people away from here.

It's not a matter of laziness either, it's more of, how much effort do I want to put into something that I'm using for casual entertainment? For many people it's minimal, but many federated platforms currently don't really work like that. They've arguably thrown the baby out with the bathwater in an overcorrection away from commercial algorithmic feeds since existing platforms have conditioned people to not have to put effort into finding silly/fun content.

The types of people to post won't be as inclined to post if they find their posts aren't reaching people because people mostly have to actively seek them out to engage with them at all. The types of people to more passively engage won't be able to as easily as those posts they might engage with may never reach them because they mostly have to actively seek them out. The end result of a lack of feedback and content for both types of people, despite there being a possibility and existence of both for them, results in this recurring sense of dissatisfaction.

Note that this is written largely with Mastodon in mind, and to a lesser degree Lemmy. In Lemmy/Kbin/Mbin/PieFed/Sublinks's cases I think they're potentially better off in terms of structure and offering different ways to sort one's feeds, but it's a matter of more people joining to round out communities and discussion more.

[-] jeze64@midwest.social 10 points 7 months ago

Incredibly well thought out reply. Thank you!

[-] farcaster@lemmy.world 26 points 7 months ago

Yeah Lemmy, besides news and technology, is very quiet and I think it suffers from having communities fractured between instances, so niche interests get even less traffic than they would on Reddit. But my Mastodon feed is always busy and interesting. If it isn't you're not following the right people yet. I recommend some hashtag searches for things you're interested in.

[-] Molecular0079@lemmy.world 30 points 7 months ago

Lemmy really needs a concept of a "super-community", some way to group different communities together and have that grouping be subscribeable. Maybe creating a post within a super-community will give the user the ability to automatically cross-post to all the individual communities, although this could be abuseable.

[-] Kierunkowy74@kbin.social 19 points 7 months ago
[-] fuckwit_mcbumcrumble@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago

Collections is exactly what I'd love to see added to lemmy. Especially if the collections has the ability to filter out posts cross posed to different communities.

[-] Kierunkowy74@kbin.social 3 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

/kbin crossposts are displayed as smaller, like on image (if you can see it :))
Edit: you can't. Click fediverse logo to see it on /kbin

[-] saga@lemm.ee 10 points 7 months ago

Big agree with this. One of the clients I messed with had a feature like this and it's really nice. But we need something server-side to allow federated communities to pull from each other to create a river from separate streams as it were.

I follow lots of the the same communities across instances and that means often I'm seeing repeated posts, sometimes from different authors just to get the aggregate of things. This would be a huge boon to the usability too.

[-] independantiste@sh.itjust.works 24 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

People on here and on mastodon are really pessimistic overall I've found. I still need to go to Twitter despite all the bots and engagement farming going on these days if I want to learn about new product releases or the newest possibilities of the newest technology that was released just yesterday.

I feel like the only news that get shared here and that actually get engagement are the bad ones about the war in Ukraine or in Palestine, or about anti-minority laws but we never see the good news like the fact that France added abortion as a constitutional right.

[-] Zipitydew@sh.itjust.works 10 points 7 months ago

A big factor is Lemmy was setup by tankies for tankies. So the constant spam of negative news about _______ western nation is on brand.

[-] roscoe@lemmy.dbzer0.com 23 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

I see this as a positive. Instead of being fed content to keep me engaged by an algorithm until I suddenly realize the day is almost over and I didn't really enjoy myself, I reach a point where I feel like I'm done for the day then I make plans, play a game, read, etc.

Now I read the news, fuck around on lemmy a bit, then actually get on with a "real" day.

[-] MelonYellow@lemmy.ca 11 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Yeah I don't really relate to the complaint because why does all your fun have to come from a single website? Does your online content have to be a one-stop shop? I just hop around Lemmy, Tildes, read sports news, maybe watch some cool videos on Youtube, etc etc. And when I'm bored with internet, I have other stuff IRL to do. Yeah I'm just not treating Lemmy like an endless scroll feed like Reddit or Instagram. I just check out what's new (I might pop in a few times a day), participate if I want, and move on.

[-] PlantJam@lemmy.world 21 points 7 months ago

I recommend some keyword filters. I use them to reduce certain topics from my feed, specifically about certain wars or politicians or celebrities. I did the same thing on reddit to filter out some of the "awareness" campaigns where everyone posted about the FCC chair to every single sub.

I also just browse local communities instead of the entire fediverse. This defeats the purpose of the fediverse, but it drastically reduces the number of duplicate and NSFW communities. I then mute the communities I don't want to see. I'll also mute the hyper specific communities that usually have complete overlap with the more general community, i.e. dogs and dogpictures.

It takes some work to get your feed to your liking, but it's worth it in the end. There's still far less content available than on reddit, but the amount of quality content feels similar.

[-] ConstipatedWatson@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago

You're our hero!

How do you stay in a community, but filter content you don't want through keywords?

[-] PlantJam@lemmy.world 4 points 7 months ago

Honestly I don't even bother subscribing to comminuted. Communities for me are opt-out via muting rather than opt-in via subscriptions. I still see posts from the news community even though I have several Gaza keywords filtered out.

[-] HKayn@dormi.zone 21 points 7 months ago

The issue is that the majority of people on the Fediverse are "techies" with specific interests, which skews the spectrum of content quite a bit.

The Fediverse is in an awkward spot. It needs more people like you to keep technology communities from becoming Linux circlejerks, but at the same time those circlejerks are driving people like you out.

[-] supersquirrel@sopuli.xyz 3 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

I don’t think there is really a conflict here though if we are all just nice to each other.

I think techy nerds are an absolutely fine foundation for a community so long as said techy nerds understand the inherent politics to being a techy nerd, having access to powerful computers and having the privilege of being in a highly skilled industry that pays fairly well (I know big generalization).

It is going to be awkward trying to expand the horizons to include a more diverse user base, but there is nothing wrong with awkwardness, just toxic behavior and gatekeeping.

Techy nerds just need to be willing to listen and evolve their understandings of community spaces. It seems like computer nerds are obsessed with visions of the internet before the masses of people and big corporations came onto it, but while that feeling is understandable it risks building a conceptual wall between people who are passionate about the capacity of computers to help people and the very people they want computers to help.

We can have a better more positive federation of communities than the internet has ever had if we decide right now to be more inclusive and radical in our solidarity with each other.

[-] Brkdncr@lemmy.world 18 points 7 months ago

You’re a consumer. If you see something interesting post it to Fediverse so you can also be a contributor.

It sort of sounds like you want people to entertain you for free.

[-] jeze64@midwest.social 17 points 7 months ago

If you look at my profile you'll see that's not the case. I've been contributing quite a bit.

[-] MrFunkEdude@piefed.social 15 points 7 months ago

The Fedi is what you make of it. Since there's no algorithm telling you who to follow or pushing posts to your feed, it's up to you to curate who you follow.

My feed is a mixture of shit posts, memes, cats and dogs, flowers, a little politics and a little tech. Chaos is why I'm here and who I follow reflects that. If your feed is full of info you don't care about, then you're following the wrong people.

[-] rockSlayer@lemmy.world 13 points 7 months ago

Give it time. The porn on lemmy is growing exponentially, so the more varied content will start trickling in. My guess is roughly 3 more months before the memes really start to pick up

[-] kbal@fedia.io 10 points 7 months ago

Fedi is the worst social media, except for all the others.

[-] xnx@slrpnk.net 9 points 7 months ago

The only thing I’m missing from the fediverse is a platform where animations and animators can connect and share their work with the possibility of having it discovered. Pixelfed still isnt in the app stores, peertube is not user friendly and has no official apps, mastodon doesnt have amy kind of upvoting or algorithm or ability to browse lemmy communities, lemmy doesnt have native video support or user follows.

[-] DABDA@lemm.ee 8 points 7 months ago

Yeah, where's the fun? There's no posts about owls/bats/invertebrates/cats/dogs, no cooking or food posts, no pictures of people knitting socks, nobody asking general questions, no articles and pictures about space, no discussion around movies/tv/books, nobody ever posts about gaming of any kind, there's no memes to be found anywhere, no poems or short stories, no digital/traditional/AI art.

For some reason browsing news/politics/technology always seems to revolve around depressing and infuriating topics which is different from every other platform.

[-] jeze64@midwest.social 11 points 7 months ago

Your snark is the perfect embodiment of why people leave the fedi.

[-] DABDA@lemm.ee 6 points 7 months ago

I'm not the one complaining about being bored and requesting that everyone else amuse me. All those things I listed are things that are regularly posted so what's the issue?

[-] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 7 months ago

The issue is that you're being shitty.

Instead of linking to any of the many communities with the content you brought up, you sarcastically threw shade at the guy for either not already knowing about it or finding it not enough while you do.

It's elitism over one of the most fucking pitiful things you could ever be elitist about: familiarity with an online space.

He was bringing up a personal criticism of this space, not demanding it change to fit his needs.

[-] DABDA@lemm.ee 5 points 7 months ago

This wasn't an innocent request for interesting topics to follow, it was taking the stance that only serious topics get discussed here and it's boring:

I’d like to see the fedi let its hair down a bit. It’s okay to talk about stuff other than infosec, privacy guides, distros, and Gaza.

It wasn't a demand, but certainly requesting that we "let our hair down a bit" and that they "often get bored of the Fediverse."

This post could have been phrased as "What are some good non-political or news related communities?" And I'll gladly accept the label of being elitist if it's because I have minimal expectations that people explore for solutions before complaining and implying it's everyone else that needs to change. You can't browse all without easily bumping into the things I listed, and if you aren't aware there's different filtering options there's always a sidebar link instructing you how the platform works.

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[-] jeze64@midwest.social 6 points 7 months ago

Oh Christ you're insufferable.

[-] Blaze@dormi.zone 6 points 7 months ago

A few suggestions

And this list (post the link in the search to get it on your instance)

https://lemmy.world/post/2216085

[-] cloudless@lemmy.cafe 4 points 7 months ago

That's why I only view subscribed communities, completely free of news/politics.

[-] Bishma@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 7 months ago

Lemmy is a little slow sometimes, but I've started to have the opposite problem on Mastodon. I need to weed out some hashtags or something because I can't keep up anymore.

[-] kubica@kbin.social 5 points 7 months ago

Even back on twitter days I never got used to it because there's just so much content everywhere that I feel that I can't follow any topic properly and I lose all interest. In my case the concept of microblogging is not a right fit for me.

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[-] Ignacio@kbin.social 6 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

I had to leave a Mastodon instance because it was about activism, gaza and politics the whole fucking day. So I perfectly understand what you feel. But I think there are ways and/or servers where everybody can feel comfortable. The mastodon server where I'm on right now, people talks about US stuff the whole day, and I'm very annoyed because of that because I don't give a damn shit about US. But the admin is cool, people support Ukraine, and I follow funny stuff too.

[-] Bezier@suppo.fi 6 points 7 months ago

Not a perfect solution by any means, but you can block communities you have no interest in.

[-] Today@lemmy.world 4 points 7 months ago

After i scroll my subscribed communities, if i have extra time i scroll all. I often find something new to follow - art, cats, or that new music lyrics/AI art one that i still can't figure out.

[-] OsrsNeedsF2P@lemmy.ml 4 points 7 months ago

jUsT mAkE coNtEnT

[-] LouNeko@lemmy.world 4 points 7 months ago

Youtube Shorts give me Brainrot but I can't stop watching them. I don't know what they did to the algorithm, but it perfectly captures my attention.

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