r/transtimelines was such a great resource, I miss it dearly over here. Thank you for sharing your journey!
Be the change you want to see
Just be careful. I used to go to trans timeline early on and question what I was doing wrong and why I didn't look like them after their amount of time
Was there an answer? As someone tooooootally not doing that 5 months in
After a while I had to put the blinders on and focus on myself, realize that I'm not gonna become this heavyset-to-twink femboy to trans woman story.
Roller skating and roller derby gave me something to focus on along with facial surgery.
<_< You should get blue lipstick. Blue hair with blue lipstick is my signature. It's a big hit with the public. And it's very satisfying to match your lips and hair.
I was looking for some right before I dyed it, but never could find one I liked. Honestly it'd probably be work looking again.
Nyx has a two layer dark blue with a glossy top layer that is gorgeous. Actually, three of my four blue lipsticks are Nyx. I've got a bright blue matte butter gloss for when my hair is faded and a pencil lipstick with an ocean witchy blue-green shade for when I'm fading through to shade to sky blue. Kat Von D has a gorgeous matte dark blue that would look great with your hair. I bet the KVD and the Nyx pencil would match your hair well if you put them over a thin layer of black.
Ooh, I haven't used their two part lipstick.
I've used one of their liquid lipsticks, but it always makes my lips sting really bad. I'll have to check that one out though.
You look absolutely beautiful!!!
Always nice to see
Omg goals ☺️ how did you do it?
Estrogen and patients.
You look amazing! I am hoping to be able to post a timeline like this myself, some day
Damn, what a glow up. Great job!
So pretty!!!!
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