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I just got permanently banned from a community for making a single harmless remark on a single post that was right there in the main feed. It's not a community I'm super active in so it's not like devastating, but it is annoying

If your precious little community is full of so many delicate sensitive people who can't even be reminded that another viewpoint even exists, then you should really protect them by defederating and having everyone join your private website

The mod has literally removed like 75% of the comments and banned everyone lol

I don't know about anyone else, but I don't have time to read every rule for every community that pops up when I'm in view all

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[-] JonsJava@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I defended @beaver@lemmy.ca when a comment of theirs was reported.

I was just given context on this. Looking at their comments in that light, I have decided to ban them from !unpopularopinion@lemmy.world for all their bad faith arguments. Banning people for "bad faith" voting is bullshit. Coming here to defend that horrible action will not be tolerated.

[-] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 90 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

We all know it's the vegan community. I got banned for simply voting on comments.

Now they're also spamming posts to fill up everyone's feeds.

[-] ruckblack@sh.itjust.works 48 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Same here lmfao, the utter sensitivity.

Edit: Also, it's mostly that one power-mod spamming vitriolic posts. I just blocked them and my feed is a lot nicer. Dude's checking the database and just banning everyone who downvotes him.

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[-] MrJameGumb@lemmy.world 29 points 1 month ago

It was indeed! The post in question was particularly smarmy and my response was pretty tame in comparison. Why even have a community if you don't want anyone to have a conversation?

[-] Skua@kbin.earth 27 points 1 month ago

Vegans are a relative minority group that a lot of people like to antagonise. That's not to say you were doing that, I haven't looked at what you got banned over. Just that a lot of people do go out of their way to try to annoy vegans, and because there are relatively few vegans those people can quickly drown out any attempt to discuss, like, vegan recipes and such

[-] ruckblack@sh.itjust.works 28 points 1 month ago

Honestly most of the posts I see on /c/vegan or /c/veganmemes are just making fun of and antagonizing people who eat meat lmao

[-] hoshikarakitaridia@lemmy.world 11 points 1 month ago

vegans are a relatively minor group

Wanna debunk that real quick. I live in Berlin, every major supermarket has a few sections completely dedicated to vegans. And I'm pretty sure they've also become a bit larger in general. Still the minority, but definitely significant by now.

That said, a very small minority is very vocal about it. A lot of people in my circles just live it, and they don't really care to proclaim it, that's the difference. And sure a lot of them want people to eat less meat, but no one is gonna get on your ass about it.

Doesn't really change the jist of what you're saying of course, just wanna make sure we're not dragging the whole movement into it.

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[-] EABOD25@lemm.ee 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

It's tribalism. We're unfortunately all guilty of it in one way or another and it has become more serious with the increase of social media use

I like this explanation in particular: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/beyond-school-walls/202304/tribalism-in-the-age-of-social-media

Edit: to add, I am suspecting that I'm still getting brigaded by a group I pissed off last week. It really doesn't bother me if they are doing that, but there are people that take their internet points more serious than I do so there are definitely people in the fediverse that will do that to you

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[-] Fosheze@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago

That explains why I'm banned from there. I saw a post from there pop up on all that I actually agreed with and when I tried to comment I learned I was banned.

[-] OhmsLawn@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago

I missed this whole thing. I've had them blocked for as long as I can remember.

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[-] Ep1cFac3pa1m@lemmy.world 62 points 1 month ago

I got banned for downvoting. Kind of hard to take people seriously when they’re so sensitive to criticism that the equivalent of a thumbs down emoji gets you banned.

[-] ech@lemm.ee 36 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Pretty sure I just got banned from c/vegan because I downvoted "wrong". Haven't interacted in any other way, so not sure what else it could be. Also recently got banned from c/imageai for downvoting "too much"? This is a weird trend that seems like a bad path for Lemmy to go down if it's starting to become the norm.

*Also, what's up with not being able to block a community you're banned from? They don't want you there but you're forced to view their content? That makes no sense.

[-] Hamartiogonic@sopuli.xyz 14 points 1 month ago

I see a lot of comments about a particular vegan community. Sounds like people here need something like c/chillVegans where you don’t get kicked out unless you’re a total menace.

[-] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago

The problem is that people love to needle vegans, so it would just end up as gore.

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[-] ocassionallyaduck@lemmy.world 34 points 1 month ago

I never care about these posts unless you share what you posted.

Too Many times the "it was just a little joke bro" turns out they called someone's dog the N word or something and understand why they got banned.

"What it wasn't like I said it about a person, just a ***** dog"

So, have fun OP, but making this post makes me doubt you more than them if you're not going to recount any details at all.

[-] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 15 points 1 month ago

Feel free to check the modlog.

Butthurt Beaver has also been banning anyone who dares vote incorrectly.

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[-] ptz@dubvee.org 29 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

So, like, if I organize a block party where everyone's invited, and someone drops a deuce in the punch bowl, I shouldn't ask them to leave because I should have had a discrete guest list?

[-] MrJameGumb@lemmy.world 24 points 1 month ago

I'd say it's more like I went to a party where the host invited the entire block but only wants people there wearing funny hats, but didn't tell anyone they had to wear a funny hat and then called the police to complain that their house is full of people who aren't wearing funny hats.

I'd take the ban without question if I was acting like an ass on there, but all I did was make a comment that didn't specifically agree with them that everyone who isn't vegan is apparently a horrible person who persecutes vegans constantly lol

[-] ptz@dubvee.org 24 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

but didn't tell anyone they had to wear a funny hat

FYI, I don't know the specific case here, just being generic.

The rules are right there in the sidebar in pretty much all clients, though it varies on mobile depending on app/web UI. Most communities here have rules. Society has rules. Ignorance of those rules, whether accidental or willful, is never a valid excuse for breaking them. "I'm sorry, officer, I didn't know I couldn't do that" isn't a valid legal strategy.

To return to the analogy: it would be like showing up to the event without a funny hat despite the invitation clearly stating that a funny hat is required and then being asked to leave. It's on the attendee to read the details on the invitation and be aware of any requirements.

"Calling the police" would be more akin to escalating to a site admin to have you banned for that which, I agree, would be extreme unless the person decided to be an ass and make a scene on the way out (not throwing shade with that, just using an actual party example I've had to deal with).

[-] lazynooblet@lazysoci.al 14 points 1 month ago

Doesn't explain the 20 or so users banned in the past couple of hours for "rule 5" having never posted in the community.

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[-] Blaze@sopuli.xyz 17 points 1 month ago

Yeah, I don't really get it either.

You don't have to comment on everything you see. Seems more logical to focus on a few communities you know, and pay more attention when you browse All.

Even if you comment, it's okay to be banned. Move on. Why make a post to complain about it if you don't care?

[-] fsxylo@sh.itjust.works 28 points 1 month ago

Vegans will talk mad shit and then get so mad when their thread reaches nonvegan feeds.

Can't stand the heat, which is why they eat salad.

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[-] Mildetoast@lemmy.world 21 points 1 month ago

Ahhhhh... feels just like Reddit! It's like we never left!

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[-] njm1314@lemmy.world 21 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Seriously these mods ban you for literally nothing. I think they're worse on here than they ever were on Reddit. Bunch of fucking children I swear to God.

edit Oh hey now I'm banned from c/vegan too. I wasn't even talking about them. They're even worse I guess.

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[-] frickineh@lemmy.world 20 points 1 month ago

Not to be all "not like the other girls" about veganism, but I kind of hate the general vegan communities. They always end up turning into a who can hate meat eaters the most contest and the less extreme members usually leave. It's also really frustrating because the goal should be to get more people eating plant based, and their methods just push people away. Yeah, of course I believe people should stop eating meat, and I struggle to understand how someone can acknowledge the cruelty of factory farming and turn around and eat a burger, but shouting them down isn't accomplishing anything. I'm not going to engage with the people who show up just to talk shit, but I'm down to talk to anyone actually open to a conversation.

That said, there are a lot of people who think it's suuuuper funny to seek out vegan communities to make the same tired ass comments that lead to vegans becoming angrier and more insular, so I really don't want to make this a Vegans Bad comment. I get the desire to tell people to fuck off. It's exhausting to try to talk about a news article and be constantly drowned out by trolls.

OP, I don't know what your comment said, but you know whether or not you were engaging in good faith. Maybe you deserved the ban, maybe not. I just think maybe sometimes we could all stand to keep scrolling.

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[-] CarbonatedPastaSauce@lemmy.world 19 points 1 month ago

Just leave the rabid vegans alone. They are showing you who they are. Believe them and don’t waste your time trying to be rational with them.

[-] prettybunnys@sh.itjust.works 19 points 1 month ago

Was it on the vegan community? I bet it was on the vegan community.

Their echo chambers are lined with the same material the tankies use in their communities.

[-] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 18 points 1 month ago

Nah, a ton of people say the same thing.

They're wrong, and so are the immediate bans (the bans are asshole moves, but you don't just jump into a C/ without checking the vibe a little), but it's too common a complaint to call unpopular.

[-] renrenPDX@lemmy.world 17 points 1 month ago

I’ve never come across a friendly vegan community. I’m not exactly looking for one but the ones that make themselves known tend to have extreme takes. There’s nothing wrong being vegan but their online community sure feels they’re going about it the wrong way, being overly dismissive and defensive rather than open and helpful.

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[-] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 1 month ago

IMO this is mainly only a problem because Lemmy is small enough that everyone is browsing all and there's no realistic natural separation of users. Going private is an extreme solution with high likelihood of it just dying as a result.

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[-] kittenzrulz123 14 points 1 month ago

I moderated a left wing community at one point, so by your logic I should allow Liberals to flood the community until its no longer left wing? Im not saying Liberals aren't allowed but its stated clearly in the sidebar that they shouldn't talk over the intended audience (left wingers).

[-] lvxferre@mander.xyz 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Upvoted as unpopular. I don't know if I agree with this or not (on general grounds), it's extremely complicated.

In theory it's completely OK to have a community for a restricted but non-private demographic, and often it's how you avoid a crowd of "excuuuuse me, I'm going to debate the same stale points over and over, and I expect you to waste your time with me".

In practice we know that there's a high chance that the community evolves into an echo chamber, of the dumbest type - that claps to convenient idiocy, but ridicules inconvenient truth.

If it's sensible to have a community like this, as well as the outcome of having it like this, depends mostly on the sanity of whoever is in charge of the comm.

[Edited for subtle rewording. No change on discourse.]

[-] jordanlund@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago
[-] MrJameGumb@lemmy.world 18 points 1 month ago

I appreciate that, but I already blocked the mod and the community. There's no point in even trying to deal with someone like that for a community I'm not super active in. I honestly can't imagine that even vegan people will want to stay there much longer if it's gotten this bad

[-] Skua@kbin.earth 11 points 1 month ago

Isn't blocking them essentially you banning them from your posts and comments? Why is that different?

[-] lvxferre@mander.xyz 11 points 1 month ago

Isn’t blocking them essentially you banning them from your posts and comments? Why is that different?

No. Blocking in Lemmy is simply a way to remove something from your sight; even if you block a user, the user can still interact with your posts/comments just fine.

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[-] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 13 points 1 month ago

I feel like the Internet doesn't have that fuzzy but between public and private spaces like real life does. Some people want their public space to be like a Marxist book store on a side street to a Main/High Street. Sure, people can come in to read the literature and talk about the books there. However, if someone comes in wanting to discuss the merits of Ayn Rand, they are probably going to be kicked out.

[-] MBM@lemmings.world 12 points 1 month ago

I don’t know about anyone else, but I don’t have time to read every rule for every community that pops up when I’m in view all

This is exactly what made subreddits turn into an indistinguishable mush once they start reaching the front page. A way to not have your community show up in All would be nice, or to make posts read-only unless you're subscribed.

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[-] HexesofVexes@lemmy.world 11 points 1 month ago

I love the Lemmy vegan community - they are the second greatest shitposters around (fuckcars have the edge due to their expert ragebaiting).

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[-] MapleEngineer@lemmy.world 11 points 1 month ago

They are echo bunkers. They only want comments and identity validating upvotes that whole throatedly support the orthodoxy of the echo bunker but they want to spread their extremist message by commenting on and brigading posts that they don't like in other communities to try to bully, shame, and harass others into adopting their extremist quasi-religion and join their echo bunker.

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[-] GooberEar@lemmy.wtf 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I don't think this opinion is really all that unpopular, but I get that this sub is often used to air grievances and somewhat popular opinions, so I won't judge too harshly.

Pretty impressive modlog rap sheet you got there OP! I had my last account for over a year and I don't think I got banned or had a comment removed once, so seeing an account with dozens of entries is eye opening to say the least. This account is new enough that I've managed to stay off the modlogs so far with it as far as I'm aware. Maybe I should go into a random sub and say something racist and/or toxic! Are there any dog specific communities where I can request dog meat recipes?

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