Especially for women I found that most women I hang out with are kinda bi-oriented and have had sex with a woman at least once and liked it. It's really the majority. For men it's a bit more of a taboo still. Personally I don't find men attractive as such but penises as such don't put me off. It's not about the genitals, it's more their faces and behaviour that just doesn't attract me. If the guy is a bit feminine/queer and I like them I'm sure I would end up doing something 😆 (though I haven't as of yet). So I'd put myself down as heteroflexible.

Now, I have to say that the people I hang out with are mostly in the kinky and swinger community so they are definitely not "normal" 🤭 and neither am I obviously. But as far as I can tell the amount of bi oriented people is indeed way way higher than the 10% we've always been told. I think it's a spectrum even and not many people are on the absolute edge of it.

But most of the people I hang out with are not in the Gen Z age range but a lot older. It's not just Gen Z's that are becoming more open about sex. But one thing I really like is that the taboos are dropping. I can openly talk about these things with all of my friends. I always hated that taboo about talking about sex with people you're not intimate with.