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submitted 1 day ago by spujb@lemmy.cafe to c/196

this site is actually so mean literally all the time so im posting this here to let you know you’re not ‘too sensitive’ or something for not wanting to deal with attacks on your gender/body/intelligence for daring to exist and have fun online. the freaks that act like this are NOT the norm (they are just the loud and obnoxious minority) and it’s OK to take your time in recognizing this. <3

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[-] AVincentInSpace@pawb.social 2 points 1 day ago

lemmy is an order of magnitude worse than reddit tf you talking about

[-] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 day ago

Maybe you're not using Lemmy correctly? I would suggest looking at hot, 6 hour, 12 hour, and subscribed in that order. Blocking communities that drive you crazy would also probably really benefit you.

[-] AVincentInSpace@pawb.social 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Blocking communities that drive you crazy would also probably really benefit you.

Oh I do. And users. And sometimes whole instances. I've still yet to go an entire week without getting into an argument with a troll spanning at least three hours and coming away knowing nothing I didn't before.

[-] urheber@discuss.tchncs.de 12 points 1 day ago

.... you see where the problem here lies, right?.... you engage.

[-] AVincentInSpace@pawb.social 1 points 1 day ago

alright then, how about this: I'm tired of my feed being a 50/50 mix of memes and blatantly wrong communist propaganda

[-] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 day ago

Sorry man, that sounds like a you thing. If someone is trolling you, you commenting back is the worst thing you can do. Just state your facts (to give the counterbalance) once and then walk away. If you're replying and explaining, they're winning.

[-] Montagge@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 day ago
[-] AVincentInSpace@pawb.social 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

pawb.social is defederated from hexbear. I'm seeing those same clowns on .world. They're not even localized to .ml anymore.

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