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[-] Kahlenar@lemmy.world 55 points 1 year ago

Videogames, no they're not a waste of time they're a huge cultural entity with a grand future.

[-] Unforeseen@sh.itjust.works 18 points 1 year ago

After meeting your needs for survival, everything else is entertainment

[-] AceFuzzLord@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago

With just how many are out there, how prevalent they are, and how large of an industry they are, they are definitely a huge cultural entity. As for a grand future, that I'm not so sure of if triple AAA titles are to be continuing the trends they are already going down.

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[-] weedwhacking@lemmy.world 50 points 1 year ago

Being gay (despite how many times my dad said it was just a phase)

[-] drdabbles@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago

I always suspected people saying being gay is a "phase" are gay or bi themselves. I don't understand the thinking otherwise.

[-] MataVatnik@lemmy.world 20 points 1 year ago

Son, your love for cock is just a phase. I got over it you will too. Now excuse me while I get on grindr and harass young men with my faceless empty profile.

[-] PeckerBrown@lemmy.world 30 points 1 year ago

Hating the rich. Hated them when I was young; hate them even more as a boomer puke.

[-] Nutteman@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

Oh shit, I've stumbled upon the rare good boomer

[-] PeckerBrown@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm not 'good'. However, I'm not a fool, and it's nothing short of suicidal folly to ignore or embrace those who consider themselves the owners (and harvesters) of mankind.

#ETROBAAT (eat the rich; one bite at a time)

[-] Granixo@feddit.cl 25 points 1 year ago

Being a gamer 🎮

Listening to Rock Music 🎸

Complaining about my parents' bad habits 🍷🍺

pr0n.

[-] iforgotmyinstance@lemmy.world 22 points 1 year ago

Emo/pop punk. Idgaf the music is banging. Went to the MCR reunion tour and had the time of my mid 30s life.

[-] ininewcrow@lemmy.ca 19 points 1 year ago

That I had to do everything for myself, all the time, in every way.

I'm indigenous Canadian and my parents basically grew up on their own in the wilderness. They basically just let is do anything and everything for ourselves on our own all the time.

I worked all the time as a kid ... at first because I had to but eventually because I wanted to because my parents were like that. I followed by example.

I remember at one point as a teen taking part in project after project trying to get people to help, to take part, to share or to even just join me and make the work easier. It was always a pain to get help.

I remember arriving at a breaking point and I just started ignoring people and did enormous projects on my own. Often people would just see me struggle and help but more often than not they wouldn't.

I've worked on my own ever since in building and construction .... I got it to the point where I could literally build my own house from the ground up.

[-] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago

I'm nearly 50 but I'll never stop buying band t-shirts. It's my absolute favourite thing.

[-] the_dopamine_fiend@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago

Graphic tees make the kind of first impression I want to make. I wear my special interests emblazoned on my torso because I want to meet and talk with people who vibe with them. If you recognize the Aphex Twin logo or Miskatonic University, we've already got something in common. It's that frickin' simple!

[-] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

I agree!!! Also I look like a babe in them lol.

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[-] Alterforlett@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago
[-] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

I LOVE going to shows and getting a new shirt every time.

[-] the_dopamine_fiend@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago
[-] Drunemeton@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago

I’m male, in my 50’s, and still waiting for that ‘peek at 17’ to stop…

[-] MataVatnik@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

Right? I wish I could turn off my libido like a switch.

[-] TheInsane42@lemmy.world 16 points 1 year ago

Hating kids. Never liked them when I was their age (it was mutual) and still don't like them. It took ages to find a partner that feels the same. She kinda likes them, for a short time, but doesn't want to have them, so that's close enough.

Also, not caring about clothes. Yeah, you need to wear something, way to cold not to, but what... don't care to much. Jump in store, get jeans (current favorite is a local farmers store brand, cheapest), next store, shirt and sweater, done. Record shopping time for a set that fitted was 15 min for 3 stores and 2 complete sets. Waste of money to have more then 1 set to wear, 1 in the laundry and one drying. (And 1 spare for emergencies, like missing your mouth with coffee when not awake yet)

[-] andromedathecat 15 points 1 year ago

I thought this said phrase at first and was so confused.

Being goth tho 🖤

[-] Pandoras_Can_Opener@mander.xyz 13 points 1 year ago

Wearing gender non conforming clothes (turns out I'm non binary, so I doubled down), not wanting to be around ex family (also doubled down), not wanting kids (cats don't count right? ❤️), being a nerd.

Cats count.

Pets are the new children.

Plants are now pets.

Children are big exotic animals, like tigers. Even if you were foolish enough to want one you can't afford it.

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[-] isthingoneventhis@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Never wanting to be in pictures or being outside/active for long periods of time. I will eternally look like a goblin and I don't have the social battery to deal with long excursions of "doing stuff". It tops out at maybe 2-4 hours depending and after that my brain basically turns to goo.

Oh and also: wearing all black. It just makes dressing myself not a hassle.

[-] Unforeseen@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago

Hahaha same. Friend and family called me the vampire. 95% of my clothes are black, including socks.

[-] Vaggumon@lemm.ee 12 points 1 year ago

Hating people.

[-] schmorpel@slrpnk.net 11 points 1 year ago

Believing that modern life is some kind of scam. Being very angry at 'society' (uhm I know, I'm part of it, so there) for not seeing how wrong everything is.

Wanting to be alone.

[-] noseatbelt@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 year ago

Piercings and tattoos. Gaming. Not wanting kids.

I don't look very alternative so all these things surprise people if it comes up in casual conversation.

[-] roo@lemmy.one 11 points 1 year ago

Alternative. Music, politics, food cars. Mainstream never came back.

[-] ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

Being depressed about the nature of life.

I cannot exist without something/someone else dying and I've always hated that.

In the words of a long dead king, "Vanity of vanities, says the Teacher, vanity of vanities! All is vanity. What do people gain from all the toil at which they toil under the sun? A generation goes, and a generation comes, but the earth remains forever."

Being depressed about the nature of life is not new and you are not alone in it.

[-] aesthelete@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

I was told that after I got out of school I'd understand why it was necessary. I uh, still completely hate American schools and how they're structured and have no clue why they work the way they do.

[-] Weirdfish@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

Pushing 50 and still pushing on a skateboard

Video games

Not wanting children

Bare bones utilitarian furniture

Athiest

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[-] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

I still listen to angry music, envy the occasional gutter punk I see, and think if I somehow got my hands on the globally nuclear arsenal that I would gladly give the world a much needed reboot.

[-] toasteecup@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

Pissing people off by having fun doing something the way I want to.

[-] ShittyBeatlesFCPres@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

Wanderlust and not wanting to get married and have kids. People said I’d change my tune when my friends started settling down and having kids but they did and I became even more certain. I don’t dislike the kids at all but some of us are just born to be the rowdy uncles.

As for Wanderlust, I have it worse than ever. I just slowly lose my mind until I travel and refill my sanity jar. (I might have actually lost it during the pandemic. When I got the 2nd dose of the vaccine, it was like a brain fog suddenly cleared because I could leave the U.S. again.)

[-] Mantis_Toboggan@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

In my mid 30s and I thought it was a 20s thing. But I also see my friends setting down and worrying about extra-curricular activities and other parent drama. And to me, personally, it seems so petty and depressing.

I got to travel a lot last year and will later this year and that feeling of wanting to explore has not gone away.

[-] PM_ME_VINTAGE_30S@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 1 year ago

Metal and anarchism

[-] wesker@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 1 year ago

Computer nerd.

[-] UsernameLost@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago

Gaming, listening to emo music, thinking engineering is cool as shit, willing to do a boring job to make more money than I can in engineering (project management)

[-] pHr34kY@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Driving like a hoon. You'd swear I was a teenager behind the wheel.

I still have the loud-piped hot hatch and subwoofers at 39.

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