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Do you have a secret hiding place? (lemm.ee)
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I have long had a need to have this kind of private hiding place that no one knows about and they can never find me even if they really want.

I have such an old shed thingy where I sometimes go and close myself up for a day and just enjoy being out of everything and anyone’s reach.

Sometimes it’s low key scary because let’s say something happened to me then no one would ever find out but such is life eh.

Such hiding spot is very good for my mental health as whenever pressure gets too high I just disappear.

People may not understand why or why would I do it this way but I don’t try to explain or elaborate. Obviously I pick up the phone and tell them some lie that I am shopping or whatever and will be later or something important showed up thought it would be nice if they didn’t call either.

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[-] Emmie@lemm.ee 5 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Flat here is too big though. It must be very small so that it feels right. As if the walls are hugging you comfortably and you feel like in some bunker. Also underground is nice

[-] idegenszavak@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 weeks ago

It's a small flat, about 50 m2, and it's full of boxes filled random computer parts.

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