Call me a troll if you want, I think you're a narcissistic, attention seeking philistine if we're calling eachother names.
My framing is how I feel about the situation, I don't care if it offends, they are thoughts and opinions. If you don't like it, no one's making you respond to me, there are plenty of echo chambers that I'm sure you won't have to deal with any ideas or opinions that arent what you already think.
Go try and police someone elses opinions, because you've failed here.
Dont write off masculinity altogether, it's not inherently negative and doesnt just mean being an aggressive gymbro.
Not gonna give ya any specifics, but I know as I've gotten older, the best parts of me are are traits i try to balance the masculine and feminine elements to work in concert, like ying and yang.