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What's your boomer trait? (sh.itjust.works)

My boomer trait is that I frequently type in my password where the username is supposed to go. What's yours?

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Stop recording everything in your life.

[-] JustEnoughDucks@feddit.nl 5 points 2 days ago

Dear god there doesn't have to be an app for everything.

Make a website and if you really want an app-like experience, make a damn PWA. No, I don't want to download your terribly optimized, huge app to get a receipt...

I'm sorry, but to get my UK ETA for traveling for work I had to download an app that I will literally use 1 time in 2 years because it is valid for 2 years. It could easily be done with a PWA.

It is not more secure, it is less secure for the end user as apps have been caught many many more times stealing data and being malware compared to a web page where you generally have to download malware.

[-] ameancow@lemmy.world 14 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I despise overly-liberal and even overly progressive-minded young people who are absolutely naive and delusional about society, and can only view the world through their bubble that gets reinforced by their friends and online social groups. And I ain't even talking just about tankies and people down at the bottom of internet brainrot barrels.

I am a progressive and believe in socialism and a borderless world and would fight to the death against fascism. But I'm seeing way, way too many young people tuning out of reality and supporting absolutely dumb-as-fuck takes and having unrealistic expectations about what's going to happen in our world.

The lack of ability to recognize how and why a side you oppose wins and gains power is a biproduct of living with those blinders. The dismissal of millions of people who don't think like you is just as bad as the millions of people who hate you for your identity. We have to get a lot smarter and accept a lot more hard truths about how we're going to keep pushing the needle towards progress. Sometimes you have to make sacrifices like getting out and voting even if you don't like the candidate. Supporting and physically getting involved with community and groups even if you're a self-diagnosed introvert with autism.

For some screwball reason, the concept of forcing yourself to do hard things so you get better at them has become very conservative-coded but it's how we've succeeded against evil for generations. We have to start being a lot tougher and stop balking at people who don't share all your values. We win with community and organized resistance, not constant scolding and trying to be the smartest lefty in line for the camps.

[-] yyyesss@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

I hear you and what you say sounds reasonable but I haven't actually met any younger people in real life that do that shit. The kids seem to be fighting mighty hard to me.

Now, closely related but I think different (correct me if I misunderstood you) I do know some real-life accelerationists who felt that not voting would "bring down the system faster so it can be replaced by something better" which is horribly, laughably naive.

[-] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Conservative-coding of things that are actually just healthy personality balance is a real thing. Bravery, duty and basic acceptance we're mortals in an ugly world also come to mind.

There's enough history written down to say for sure it's going to self correct. Hopefully not in the "everyone like that went to a camp, but some of their ideas found a new audience a century later" way.

[-] ameancow@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I am developing an increasing worry that with the way society is atomizing, that our progressive side is going to collapse under the tendency to make "everything I don't like = conservatism and nazis" and I know that sounds a lot like the conservative complaint that the left calls everything they don't like "nazis" but there is truth to it and the term "nazi" is just one word in a growing list of ideals and tools of power that are being discarded because "the other side" uses them.

For example: the US flag. It has become a stereotype in the US that if you fly an American flag on your house or car, you are a conservative/right-wing nationalist. "America bad" is a lefty stereotype for good reason.

Meanwhile, until we get to that post-scarcity Star Trek universe, we're all still just tribes. And groups of nationalists have been the number one strongest force for change and power on our planet since we started drawing borders. It's pure political capital to have the support of armed groups of "patriots" and this is why everyone in politics is so deferential to our orange clown president, because he commands a political nuclear weapon in the form of history's oldest power source. January 6th was a weapons demonstration, not a real attempt at coup.

You simply do not get the massive global political machine to move with finger-wagging and lectures. You need force to back up your demands.

I wish I could get the left to reclaim the flag. I know America isn't a source of pride for the people harmed by America, but if you're here and you want to make the place better, you should show that you support at least it's potential and promise.

Don't get me started on guns.

[-] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Guns are a great example under "accepting we're mortals in an ugly world", actually. Nobody is seriously claiming they're going away, but the way they're talked about by the left, you would think undoing a technology is on the table.

I mean, you can still want more gun control, and most other nations have gone that way, but the only people mentioning they'll still be around in some way tend to be on the right - because that's ugly.

For example: the US flag. It has become a stereotype in the US that if you fly an American flag on your house or car, you are a conservative/right-wing nationalist. “America bad” is a lefty stereotype for good reason.

Fun fact, it was leaking into Canada for a while. Unnecessary maple leafs meant you probably didn't like vaccines or Trudeau. Then you guys (well, Trump; we know there's another party) talked about annexing us and made patriotism neutral again. Thanks?

January 6th was a weapons demonstration, not a real attempt at coup.

That's an interesting way of looking at it, although I'm not convinced it wasn't just stupidity on their part. The right also have hangups that will self-correct, in their own way.

That's kind of what I was going to say about tribalism as a force, too. Nobody turns their noses up at an Irish name today, and nobody will be impressed by lifted pickups and ill-informed scriptural references in the future. The idea of elected representatives has been around for centuries, though.

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[-] tronx4002@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

Totally agree. I hung a flag for the same reason, why should the right get to "own" the symbol of America. I ended up taking it down though since my wife thought it would give people the wrong impression of us..

[-] EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com 11 points 2 days ago

I'm often slow to adopt new tech. Unless that tech actually demonstrates a benefit to me, I don't really want to deal with.

A lot of this is due to cynicism regarding things like privacy/security, planned obsolescence, and enshittification. I also don't want to adopt something that is then discontinued ("unplanned" obsolescence?), so I often wait until something becomes well-established.

[-] immutable@lemmy.zip 9 points 2 days ago

I’m a software engineer that is also deeply uninterested in chasing shiny new things. I think another factor is that tech that I did care about has somewhat stalled out.

I’ve had iPhones since a I think the iPhone 4. I’m on the iPhone 11 which released back in 2019, I only really upgraded because my iPhone 8s battery was crapping out.

There’s just nothing exciting about these newer devices, same form factor, same OS, same basic functionality. And in a similar fashion, anything new is stuff I don’t really give a shit about. Oh it can do some kind of ai thing I don’t want, no thanks.

I’ve tried to see it as a positive. I have lots of stuff that I’ve filled my life up with, things that are meaningful to me. I think that’s what took up the space I used to fill with reading about and getting excited about this new gadget or that one. Now I’m excited to go see my niece’s Christmas recital or bake cookies with my wife to take to a friends of the library event.

Doesn’t hurt that every company seems to be in a non stop contest to see how little they can give the consumer for the maximum price while installing as much revenue generating spyware as possible.

[-] Cratermaker@discuss.tchncs.de 6 points 2 days ago

I'm also a software engineer who doesn't care about most new tech. I strongly believe that human made objects and software can both reach a state of doneness. For example, books are a technology that's "done". Both physical and digital books do a great job at delivering written content, so there's no need to keep buying the same damn thing every couple years. Phones are similar, yet the new ones just get shittier (no removable battery, no headphone jack). Kind of reminds me of how Microsoft keeps trying to solve the "problem" of programmers being needed to create programs. Powerapps being one of the latest examples.

[-] njm1314@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago

I'm constantly ragged on for still calling remote controls "the clicker".

[-] rmuk@feddit.uk 1 points 2 days ago

The reason they were called that is becaus a lot of early models use ultrasonic rather than infrared or radio so they made a loud clicking noise. My grandparents and aunts were familiar with those so they still called all remotes the clicker.

The thing is, growing up we had a Bang & Olufsen TV remote that had clicky buttons - really, very satisfyingly clicky - even though it used RF, but I just assumed all remotes were like that and that's why they were called clickers.

[-] WanderWisley@lemmy.world 15 points 3 days ago

I miss physical buttons.

[-] ripcord@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

Being older that some people, which is apparently what 30% of people call a "boomer"

[-] thisisdee@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

The one time I got called a boomer online was because I didn’t understand why artists have “eras” now instead of just albums. I think at the time an artist removed all posts from their socials and the comments are “new era coming soon?” And I asked if that just means they’re dropping a new album

[-] slazer2au@lemmy.world 78 points 4 days ago

Menus at restaurants are to be printed not via a QR code and a shitty website.

[-] GreenShimada@lemmy.world 32 points 4 days ago

To be fair, telling people to scan QR codes with their phones is a huge phishing vector. I've seen a few places with new stickers over the first one, which is very easy to do. Is it an updated menu? Or a scam page for a session stealer?

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[-] Squeezer@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

Sometimes I look old just by the way that I touch the screen of my phone. Wtf.

[-] ripcord@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

I have twice now tried to pinch to zoom a book or something I was reading. Is that the opposite of boomer? Or boomery because it's so stupid?

[-] uhmbah@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 days ago
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[-] flamiera@kbin.melroy.org 7 points 3 days ago

If you're speaking whatever current-gen slang and abbreviating every other word and still use 'u' in place of 'you', I will automatically think you're a lowly neanderthal.

"Whuh up fam? how r u?" The fuck out of here with that shit.

[-] Snowpix@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 days ago

Yeah, text-speak made sense years ago when the length of text messages was limited and you had to do that to get around it. Nowadays it just makes you look lazy and unintelligent.

[-] rmuk@feddit.uk 2 points 2 days ago

It reminds me of that (fake, I know) experiment with the apes that got sprayed with water cannons if they did the wrong thing. They're doing something without understanding why they're doing it, and if they did know why they were doing it and they wouldn't bother.

[-] tronx4002@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago
[-] 200ok@lemmy.world 14 points 3 days ago

I hate that every facet of human existence is being monetized.

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[-] lime@feddit.nl 37 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)
  • I don’t want to have to create an account for everything. Even when account creation was required in the past, it would be enough to have a username and password (sometimes email address). Now often times there are so many unnecessary mandatory fields.

  • I like my devices and appliances to have one dedicated function and to do it well, without extra features, preferably available offline. Music is listened to on the mp3. The TV is only the display and never the content source.

  • I still prefer in-person interactions, jobs, lessons, and shopping to online ones (but support having online options for those who prefer them).

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[-] Hobo@lemmy.world 11 points 3 days ago

My boomer trait is that I frequently type in my password where the username is supposed to go.

Every time you do this change your password immediately. This is shockingly easy to find in logs and match up to the users. You'd be surprised how often application logs are damn near wide open in a log repo to entire IT departments. Just trying to look out for you OP.

[-] rmuk@feddit.uk 3 points 2 days ago

And get a password manager. They solve the problem of both password reuse and typing it in the wrong field.

[-] cyberpunk007@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 days ago

I hate how tech is in everything now. Everything is IOT. Everything can expire because of software abandonment.

You know how you have those 70 year old fridges that still work? I'm sure that new Samsung IOT one will have planned obsolescence after 20 years tops.

You know how we have classic cars? Thing of the past. Locked firmware and phone home capabilities will brick new cars for similar reasons when they become old.

[-] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Caring about tech issues seems more like a gen X/Millennial thing to me. Most of gen Z hasn't figured out the problem yet; most older people just see a magic box. Obviously there's exceptions at both ends.

Edit: And gen Alpha might be old people all over again in a different way. We'll see.

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[-] Washedupcynic@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I don't use tiktok, instagram, and I deleted facebook, it's all targeted advertising slop. My "friends" on facebook didn't interact with me, they interacted with my posts. I made a post stating I was going to delete facebook on X date, and if anyone wanted my contact information they should reach out before then. 1 person reached out to keep in touch. I refuse to download apps on my phone. I already have an internet browser on the phone; one app to rule them all. Why do I need a fucking app for what I can do on your webpage? I switched to linux because both apple and windows are in a race to see who can be the shittiest walled garden that invades your privacy and steals your data, so yeah, I'm still very much, don't trust strangers on the internet, including corporations. No I will not give you my information to get a discount or bullshit rewards points. I'll pay full price, my data is worth way more than your paltry discounts.

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[-] flamingo_pinyata@sopuli.xyz 31 points 4 days ago

In person interaction is infinitely superior to anything done online. "Meeting" people online just doesn't hit the same, even with video calls.

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[-] FosterMolasses@leminal.space 5 points 3 days ago

About every 20 minutes or so, I say "That's how they get ya", while looking up something on my 5-years-out-of-date "smart"phone that can't download any new apps.

[-] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 3 days ago

Since this is Lemmy, I'm required to ask if you've considered a custom ROM.

[-] chunes@lemmy.world 10 points 3 days ago

Your nose ring makes you look like a bull.

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[-] underreacting@literature.cafe 29 points 4 days ago

I prefer calling people to texting them.

But I also don't like being called.

I guess those are my two wolves.

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[-] MrIamsosmrt@feddit.org 7 points 3 days ago

I buy music instead of paying for a streaming service like Spotify

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[-] thatradomguy@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

I still avoid online dating no matter what. Also, I don't take dick picks. Not that I have any dms that would solicit that anyway, but I also just don't do that. There was a major breach for one of the popular dating platforms recently and similar to that, some dude in OZ land setup an evil twin WiFi at airport and managed to grab a bunch of naked photos from people's online activity. Just don't do it guys. It's not worth it. Just go somewhere ffs and bang someone.

[-] sylver_dragon@lemmy.world 14 points 4 days ago

I hate cloud based services. I don't want to be reliant on and send my data to someone else's computer. Give me local control and local data storage or get off my grass!

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[-] DudeImMacGyver@kbin.earth 21 points 4 days ago

I avoid smart home type shit

[-] rmuk@feddit.uk 2 points 2 days ago

As someone who is all-in on smart home kit, I tend to agree. Everyone who visits my home loves how it all works, but I have a strict rule that nothing is connected to the Internet: it's either a local protocol (ZigBee, Matter) or connected to a local-only VLAN and is orchestrated by Home Assistant. It's increasingly difficult to recommend products to people starting out that don't involve some vague cloud service that can't be relied on, and most people don't want to go from zero to Home Assistant.

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[-] TheReanuKeeves@lemmy.world 18 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I prefer buying stuff in stores rather than online. I need to see it physically before you scam me.

Edit: my back hurts

[-] JakoJakoJako13@piefed.social 1 points 2 days ago

Don't lower AC below 68 during the Summer. Don't crank the heat past 76 in the winter. We got a drafty house but it doesn't need to be a summer atmosphere when it's 20 degrees outside.

Also don't run the water continuously while doing the dishes. That one was beat into me as a kid. Watching my brother and his baby momma leave the water running when they're cleaning baby bottles turns me redder than a boiling lobster. Doesn't help that Mom got us all together and said the water bill went up almost 100 since the baby was born. Took everything in my body to not point at those two like a dog snitching on his friend.

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