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I scrolled through every comment and not one has questioned the sanity of the OP and other commenters.
I don't wear a cloak/cape because it's 2024 and I value my job and the relationships I have.
I also don't because the utility just isn't there. A coat with sleeves that stops mid thigh is good for 90% of situations, and a longer version for rain or heavy snow. I cannot imagine a situation where a cloak would somehow trump a jacket, and I mean both in form and function. And form does have some import, not saying you need to go out and wear the latest styles, I'm pretty standard as they come, T-shirt and jeans, but at first glance, if I see someone in a cloak, it's just an odd first impression.
To answer the question, it'll come back in fashion when some rich/famous people decide it's back in fashion, I guess.
I don't understand the weird remarks about sanity and commenters in your first part and it entirely sets the tone of the rest of the comment.
If you're in a relationship where you can't wear a cloak then it's a bad one, it's a clothing piece and you should be able to express yourself and your job should not be able to fire you either.
It's entirely on you if a cloak is an odd impression, there's tons of people that think they're cool and such. Cloaks can have practical use cases.
You frankly come off as an asshole and it's unnecessary and sad.
But think about who cool and mysterious you'd look with a cape!
"That guy surely fucks" they'll say as you walk by. "What a handsome and mysterious fellow" they'll happily exclaim. If only you had the will, the enormous cajones to pull it off. Oh your life would change my friend, your life would change
They're fine with you being a rude jackass, why would they care what you wear?
I'm nice to all of them, because they're dressed normally.
I don't get it. OP asked a question and I gave my thoughts. I don't think my thoughts are far off base. Folks may not like them and that's fine.
If I saw someone show up dressed as in the picture OP shared, I would immediately think this person lacked maturity. If anyone thinks that somehow looks suave or debonair, they are mistaken. If my friend showed up dressed like that, I would ask what he was doing. I would still be friends with him though, because it's just an article of clothing. But I think if you're trying to make good first impressions and you show up dressed similar to the picture in the OP, you may not get the reactions you're looking for.
But by all means, go for it. It really doesn't matter.