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Joy in short-lived relationships?
(self.polyamory)
A community for discussion of Polyamory as well as other Ethical Non-Monogamy styles.
Simple rules:
Part of why I am polyamorous is that I enjoy experiencing all kinds of connections people can make. I like short-lived relationships and commitment for life, loose and casual ones just as much as deeply connecting ones that end up intertwining my life with someone else's irreversibly.
I like not having to go through the hoops and motions of 'standard' traditional relationships with a clearly defined dating phase, 'going steady' and all that. My partner(s) and I just do what we want and what we like, whether that's a deep friendship with a romantic component, a loose kink adventure or a non-sexual but highly romantic marriage-style commitment. We just do what works for all of us.
Thank you for such a considered reply!
Back when I was in my 30s that was exactly my outlook, and I have many find memories to look back on (and a few disasters, lol).
Now I'm older, I'm realising that I want longer term relationships, and stability.
I wish you and yours the very best for the future :-)
Thank you!
The beautiful thing about polyamory after all is that we can have both :)
Absolutely :-)