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[-] ininewcrow@lemmy.ca 74 points 3 days ago

Constantly thinking of finances

  • how much is it?
  • do I need it?
  • can I afford it?
  • should I just forget about it? ... yeah forget about it
[-] einlander@lemmy.world 35 points 3 days ago

Don't forget

  • Why did I buy this?
[-] elvith@feddit.org 20 points 3 days ago

Closely followed by:

  • Why didn't I buy this earlier? This is such a time save/practical thing/now I really need it but its costs are tripled!
[-] No1@aussie.zone 11 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Followed by:

This has been in this closet and hasn't been used for 10 years.

I better hold on to it. I might need it.

[-] SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social 3 points 2 days ago

You weren't supposed to buy and then forget it. You were supposed to forget about it before buying.

[-] Pringles@sopuli.xyz 14 points 3 days ago

This is really more about financial stress rather than adulthood. I was constantly on the verge of being broke until I became an adult and started working and (eventually) got a well paid job. Somewhat pedantic, I know, but financial stress is not an integral part of adulthood.

[-] ininewcrow@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I have enough that I shouldn't have to worry. The issue is that I grew up poor so not having enough is a constant worry that has followed me all my life.

It's not thinking of finances because you don't have enough .... it's thinking of finances because you want to be more responsible and thoughtful of how you use your money.

I have a friend who joked with me and said ... 'You aren't cheap .... you're frugal'

[-] pseudo@jlai.lu 2 points 2 days ago

I don't understand the joke part. That's sound very normal to me.

[-] ininewcrow@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 days ago

In North America ... being called 'cheap' is almost an insult as if to suggest someone is always tight with their money or doesn't want to pay for things or constantly never wants to pay full price for things

Being 'frugal' is more open meaning that just means someone wants to save money and be mindful of their spending.

[-] ricecake@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago

Oh, cheap is definitely an insult. It has connotations of making cost the top priority , as opposed to value. Booking airline tickets for a family vacation, sorting by cost, and sending a family of four a spirit airlines personal item only back of the plane seats that don't recline next to the toilet flight with four 15 minute layovers is cheap. Booking tickets through the website for a small Icelandic airline and rooms directly through the hotel is frugal. Cheap is lowering costs above all else, while frugality is avoiding unnecessary expenses.

[-] Clent@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 3 days ago

• do I need it?

Start there. If it's not clearly a no, repeat multiple times over several weeks and one can quickly learn when to spent time thinking about these things.

[-] Wfh@lemmy.zip 8 points 3 days ago

Being an adult doesn't mean you're only entitled to buy stuff you need. Don't forget to treat yourself or others once in a while if you can afford it and it's something you really want.

[-] ininewcrow@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 days ago

A neat trick is to wait ten minutes ... or walk away from something and go back to it later. If you truly need it, you'll still want it. If you didn't need it, you'll forget about it.

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